"You see very clearly that it is extremely difficult, and without God's grace and your own fervent prayer and abstinence, impossible, for you to change for the better. You feel within yourself the action of a multitude of passions: of pride, malice, envy, greediness, the love of money, despondency, slothfulness, fornication, impatience, and disobedience, and yet you remain in them, whilst the longsuffering Lord bears with you, awaiting your return and amendment; and still bestows upon you all the gifts of His mercy. Be then indulgent, patient, and loving to those who live with you, who also suffer from many passions; conquer every evil by good, and above all pray to God for them, that He may correct them -- that He may turn their hearts to Himself the source of holiness. Do not help the Devil to spread his kingdom. Hallow the name of your Heavenly Father by your actions; help Him to spread His kingdom on earth..."
Saint John of Kronstadt
My Life in Christ